The number one key to executive effectiveness is active self-esteem. We live in a Do-Have-Be world, “I do this work therefore I have this stuff which makes me be this person.” To grow active self-esteem, turn this around.
Appreciate first who you are being: your own qualities, what you like the very most about yourself. Secondly celebrate what it is you do: how you are living your life and the contributions you’re making to the world around you. The result is what you have: the relationships with the people around you, and yes, the stuff you treasure.