The gut reaction in an interview is a feeling like you’ve got to placate your interviewed to stand a chance to getting the job. But here’s what I got to say about interviewing.
If successful in landing the job, you are going to be spending most of your waking life with the people you’re interviewing with. Make sure this interview goes both ways. You’re interviewing them as well. Show healthy respect for yourself instead of being submissive and placating.
They may not even know a question they’re asking is illegal. You can help them by saying something like the following:
1. “What is it you’re trying to determine with that question?”
2. “I’d love to answer if there’s a way you could rephrase it” or something like this to help them understand that they need to get on better legal footing.
3. “I’m uncomfortable answering that question.”
Remember you’re not asking for a hand out, you’re offering your skills to a new employer. Treat yourself like the valuable resource you are!